Are you leading,
or people pleasing?

Uncover where you may be self-abandoning and what it's costing your leadership, family, and your life

You’re capable, driven, and deeply committed to the work you do.

But the way you lead your life at work and at home may be costing you more than you realise.

Not in obvious ways, but in the subtle moments where you:

Say yes when you’re already stretched
Take on more than is yours to carry
Soften your truth to keep things smooth
Or push through, even when your energy is asking you to pause

These patterns don’t make you less powerful.
They’re often why you’ve been successful.

But over time, they can quietly drain your energy, impact your relationships, and keep you leading from pressure rather than grounded, self-led clarity.

During this quiz, you will:

Answer 17 questions about how you actually show up (not how you want to)
Discover which of 6 people-pleasing archetypes is shaping your leadership and relationships
Receive a personalised result that shows exactly where your energy is leaking, and what to do about it

It takes just a few minutes.

Answer honestly, not how you want to show up, but how you actually do.

Because the more honest you are, the more precise and powerful your result will be.

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Quiz Taker testimonials

Here’s what previous quiz-takers have said about us

"Wow, I loved it....even though those answers were not easy for me to receive, I was like oh my god, the FIXER archetype is SO me 😁, and in learning about it led me to shift gears and change things enormously in my life."

Leticia

Founder, Medical Tech

"I have been wanting to improve my personal relationships and home life for a while, and after taking this quiz and discovering I'm an OVERFUNCTIONER, I realised why I've struggled to have the energy to."

Bali

HR, Royal Society of Arts

Hey, I'm Nicole Bosky

I help women transform their patterns of self-sacrifice into empowered sovereignty.

I created this quiz because I've spent many years watching capable, driven women, including myself, quietly shrink their needs, over-give, and second-guess themselves to maintain connection and respect. But that way of operating comes at a cost.

These women are operating from exhaustion rather than clarity, in order to earn their right to be valued.

Using Somatic Experiencing®, Internal Family Systems, and Authentic Relating, I help you shift these patterns at the root, through nervous system awareness, and communicating your needs, boundaries, and standards. So you cultivate unshakeable self-trust, stand in your power, and say no gracefully.

Do you keep saying yes when your body says no?

Find out in just 3 minutes for free how much energy and influence people-pleasing tendencies may be quietly costing you, your family, and your mission

Are you leading,
or people pleasing?

Uncover where you may be self-abandoning and what it's costing your leadership, family, and your life

Certified in:

.

Quiz Taker testimonials

Hey, I'm Nicole Bosky

I help women transform their patterns of self-sacrifice into empowered sovereignty.

Do you keep saying yes when your body says no?

Find out in just 3 minutes for free how much energy and influence people-pleasing tendencies may be quietly costing you, your family, and your mission

Are you leading, or people pleasing?

Uncover where you may be self-abandoning and what it's costing your leadership, family, and your life

Certified in:.

Quiz Taker testimonials

Hey, I'm Nicole Bosky

I help women transform their patterns of self-sacrifice into empowered sovereignty.

Are you leading,
or people pleasing?

Certified in:

.